The Power of Choosing You: Why Living on Purpose Matters
- Richelle Blanche

- Aug 17
- 2 min read
Updated: Oct 8
Always Striving, Never Arriving

Have you ever caught yourself striving for the next thing— the next promotion, the next project, the next achievement—without pausing to enjoy the moment you’re in?
For years, I lived that way. Each milestone was supposed to feel like “arrival.” But the truth? I barely celebrated before I was already reaching for the next goal.
What looked like success on the outside often felt like emptiness on the inside.
I thought if I just worked harder, climbed higher, or proved myself one more time, I’d finally feel fulfilled. But fulfillment doesn’t come from constantly chasing the next big thing.
Success without alignment is just another form of exhaustion.
That realization was the turning point in my Rise & Align journey: learning that living on purpose isn’t about chasing—it’s about choosing.
Why Living on Purpose Matters
Living on purpose isn’t about achieving more. It’s about experiencing more meaning in what you achieve.
When you pause to align your actions with your values and vision:
✅ Success feels satisfying because it reflects who you are, not just what you’ve done.
✅ You stop racing through life and start savoring it.
✅ You finally give yourself permission to rest in your accomplishments instead of rushing past them.
3 Shifts to Break Free from the “Next Thing” Cycle
Celebrate your wins—big and small.
Don’t move on so quickly. Pause. Acknowledge the work it took to get here. Gratitude deepens fulfillment.
Ask yourself: “Is this goal mine, or someone else’s expectation?”
Striving for recognition often keeps us chasing goals that don’t even belong to us. Alignment brings clarity.
Redefine success as a journey, not a finish line.
Living on purpose means your growth, relationships, and joy are part of the reward—not just the outcome.
Living on purpose is choosing presence over pressure. It’s shifting from striving for the next thing to creating meaning in the thing you’re living right now.
That’s what RISE & Align: Stories and Strategies for Living on Purpose is all about—helping you create a life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside.
This post is for informational and educational purposes only and does not replace professional advice. Read the full disclaimer here.
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